Defriending: The Process of Eliminating those Who Could Potentially be Loved by You

None of us are here long. For each of us the end is coming. Why then do we constantly find ourselves in the mix of feuds and pointless social quarrels? Why do we bad mouth one another and judge those we’ve yet to know? “She’s strange”, “Man, he’s annoying”, “She’s so loud”, “I hate it when people do this…”, “Why won’t they go away?”

What is wrong with us? Really, what is wrong with us? We find ourselves begging for another day and for what?! So we can say how much we don’t like it and complain to everyone how horrible our lives are?! Yet we are scared to give up our lives. What lives are we even leading? Can we even call our existence a “life,” if the only reason we have to live is to keep living so we can further complain about our existence?

Next time we feel the need to comment about someone else’s actions,  we should remember how long we have left in this life. There very well might be a tomorrow, but you are not promised a life in it. The only time we have is now. Every second, every moment we live in, that is our life. Not yesterday, not tomorrow, not even today, but now. Our life is not an existence, it’s a instant. Every choice and every action we make defines who we are.

So now let us choose. Shall we life a life of complaining, a life of demoralizing others, or a life where we love with all the essence of our being?